As a pastor and chaplain, Tom Dykstra consistently demonstrated his faithfulness, dedication, and compassion for others. Recognized as an encourager throughout his years of ministry, Tom reflected the traits of his favorite Bible character, Barnabas, a disciple of Jesus known for mentoring, support, and encouragement. Tom lived for eight years with Lewy Body Dementia and died Jan. 3, at age 69. He will be remembered by his family and friends for his cheerful and fun-loving personality.
Tom’s love for Christ and his interest in people led him to pursue a career in ministry. A graduate of Dordt College (now University) and Calvin Theological Seminary, Tom was ordained in 1981. He then served Iowa Falls (Iowa) Christian Reformed Church; West Sayville (N.Y.) CRC; Calvary CRC, Pella, Iowa; Lake Worth (Fla.) CRC (now Sunlight Community Church); and Visalia (Calif.) CRC. He also served as a chaplain for 20 years in the United States Navy Reserve, retiring as a Lieutenant Commander in 2005.
Upon his diagnosis of dementia in 2017, Tom retired after 36 years in ministry. He and his wife, Julie, moved to Clermont, Fla., in 2018, to live near one of their sons and his family. Despite the challenges of the disease, Tom faced the future with remarkable grace and a firm trust in God. He continued to find much joy in his remaining years.
Tom was an avid reader, history buff, and sports fan. He enjoyed traveling and made friends wherever he went.
Tom is survived by Julie, his wife of 46 years; four children and their spouses; and 11 grandchildren.