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5 Program Ideas That Will Encourage Dialogue at Church

Editor’s note: This article is the third in a three-part series by Todd Pheifer, the author of Let’s Talk!: A Guide to Awkward Conversations and Unifying Dialogue in the Church. Pick up the book on Amazon and follow along on The Banner’s Facebook page for discussion about the book and its important

The Lost Gifts of the Vanished

The evening sky was rapidly darkening as my family frantically huddled outside our broken-down van on the rocky shoulder of a busy mountain highway. As smoke streamed from our engine, large semi-trucks continually blasted down the road beside us, going 120 km per hour (about 75 mph).We’d been happil

9 Words That Can Cause Division (and How to Approach Them)

Editor’s note: This article is the second in a three-part series by Todd Pheifer, the author of Let's Talk!: A Guide to Awkward Conversations and Unifying Dialogue in the Church. Pick up the book on Amazon and follow along on The Banner's Facebook and X pages for discussion of the book and its impor

Reformed and Always Reforming

Variations of the saying “reformed and always reforming” have been expressed for centuries, with a breadth of meaning and intent. While often identified as a Reformation slogan, we have no written evidence that the Reformers themselves used these words together this way. They seem to have first appe

8 Ways to Talk to People With Whom You Disagree

Editor's note: This article is the first in a three-part series by Todd Pheifer, the author of Let's Talk!: A Guide to Awkward Conversations and Unifying Dialogue in the Church. Pick up the book on Amazon and follow along on The Banner's Facebook and X pages for discussion about the book and its imp

Peace is a Person

Editor’s note: This article is the honorable mention pick for The Banner’s 2024 Young Adults Writing Contest on the topic of peacemaking. Read the other winners here.“Peace be with you!” are the first words Jesus offered to his disciples as he appeared to them after his resurrection. “After he said

Now Hiring Peacemakers: Apply Today!

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” Matthew 5:9Their yelling gives a clear indication that these first graders do not value the concept of inside voices nearly as much as their teachers. The argument could be about anything: “You took the last bookmark!” “You stol

Peacemaking as Kindness Toward Strangers

A desire for peace has always been part of who I am. Among my family and friends, I aim to be a listener and a problem solver. When I came to college, I chose to major in international relations with grand dreams of being a diplomat and working for mutual understanding on the world stage. During my

Peacemaking: Face to Face

Editor’s note: This is the first-place winner of The Banner’s 2024 Young Adults Writing Contest.I knew Liz only briefly.When I first met her, she was crumpled over a worn-out walker, leaning up against the outer stone wall of the church drop-in center where I work. Her back was arched in a way that

Who Qualifies as ‘Young’?

The question came up over coffee with a friend, a Korean pastor who, like me, is retired. He shared South Korean social media post from April 2021 claiming the United Nations was introducing startling new age classifications:0-17 Underage18-65 Youth/Young People66-79 Middle Aged80-99 Elderly/Senior1

Parenting Adult Children

Navigating a relationship with adult children can be rewarding. It is wonderful to see them grow, experience independence, and strike out on their own. But this is also a period that has some challenges. While many of the challenges are unique to this particular time in history, some challenges are

Mamas, Please Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Pastors

In 2008, some clever person from Florida Hospital Church penned a spoof of the country song song “Mammas, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys” that cautioned parents instead to keep their children from becoming pastors. The parody lightly pokes fun at the quirks and challenges of the pastori

A Stagnant Church

Thanks to technological progress forged in an individualistic culture, believers today can find Christian community in a nontraditional way. Not only do online platforms offer timely alternatives to in-person gatherings, but they also create alternative Christian communities. Online, everyone is wel

Turning Over a New Leaf

I used to be the kind of person who inadvertently killed any houseplant to cross our threshold. One time I even watered an African violet without noticing it was not at all real. But in the past seven years or so I have become a Plant Person, graduating from succulents to spider plants to hanging a

Reimagining Church: Being Patient

Editor’s note: This article is the final one in a three-part series on the missional church based on the authors’ book Joining Jesus: Ordinary People at the Edges of the Church.From its start in 2011, The Table has been a nontraditional Christian Reformed Church ministry community. It calls itself a

Make Every Day Ascension Day

How does this make any sense? We go all out and celebrate Christmas, the beginning of Christ’s humiliation. We commemorate how he “made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant” (Phil. 2:7). To a lesser degree we also celebrate Good Friday and Easter, when Christ passed through the dep

Reimagining Church: Going Slowly

Editor’s note: This article is the second in a three-part series on the missional church based on their book, Joining Jesus, by Moses Chung and Chris Meehan.I (Chris) needed to have abdominal hernia surgery right after the first of the year. Recovering painfully at home, I had lots of time on my han

Hymns for Life

I was planning the music for a church service a few weeks back. I lead a small ensemble and was thinking about the flow of the service centered on Psalm 129. Everything was in place except for a postlude that would fit the joyous theme. As I looked through our hymnbook, I saw “There Is a Redeemer,”

Reimagining Church: Embrace Small

Editor’s note: This article is the first in a three-part series on the missional church based on their book, Joining Jesus, by Moses Chung and Chris Meehan.At a conference several months ago, I (Moses) met pastor Andrew Yi and Sunna, his wife. They invited me to preach at an anniversary celebration

Conservative Compassion

“Mom and Dad, we need to talk.” Sensing the gravity of the conversation, Mom suggested they sit down. Then came the words their son had been holding back for five years: “Mom and Dad, I’m gay.” In stunned silence, conservative-to-the-core Monte and Tammie paused and simply responded, “We love you.”N