“I didn’t just lose my spouse; I didn’t just lose my marriage—I feel like I lost my church, too.” That’s the heartbreaking cry of many who’ve walked through divorce. The question we as the church must ask is, “How do we respond? How do we minister to hurting people well?”Twenty years of Christian co
“God should have a nicer house,” thought David as he admired his own upgraded cedar-built accommodations. He felt embarrassed to be living in a swanky new house while the ark of God’s presence still dwelled in a shabby little tent. After a long period of fighting battles and living on the run, David
When Synod 2025 met in June, one of its most-discussed decisions was a change in the editorial policy of The Banner. While many readers were shocked, even appalled, at the change, tussles over the balance between confessional boundaries and editorial freedom are not new. Last year’s decision is just
My wife of 49 years died about a year ago. I am often sad. But I am not going to come apart.Why?Because the story of my marriage is a subplot of the main plot of God’s story.My subplot’s chapter is closed. I am no longer married to Melanie. Yet I am still in a marriage. The grand story we’re in is a
During the past five years the CRC has invested tremendous energy in drawing clear boundary lines concerning human sexuality. We might call this “phase one” of working through the 175-page 2021 Human Sexuality Report. The report calls for much more than clarifying boundaries. Now it’s time for phase
I had traveled from Michigan to my Winnipeg hometown to help my parents move and say goodbye to the house I grew up in. My brother was hauling my childhood dresser down the driveway, where it was loaded into a stranger’s truck.“What are you doing?” I demanded hotly.“What?” He couldn’t fathom why I w
The Christian Reformed Church’s first denominational endeavors after its establishment were to publish a denominational magazine and open a theological training school, and for many years their financial fates were intertwined. The Banner of Truth (a monthly magazine in English) and De Wachter (in D
There’s so much I appreciate about the 2004 mewithoutYou album Catch for Us the Foxes that, although it's an obscure pick, I rank that sophomore release from the now-defunct, crunchy, hipster, at-one-time-Christian, post-hardcore band as my all-time favorite album.Known for its inventive instrumenta
I remember the days before each of our little ones arrived. Fresh sheets clung to the crib mattress, with soft blankets nearby. The musical mobile hung with anticipation over the place that would soon hold our little bundle. I stocked the changing table with newborn-sized diapers and laundered and f
Take my life and let it beconsecrated, Lord, to thee.Take my moments and my days;let them flow in endless praise,let them flow in endless praise.On Feb. 13 I walked through the front door of the cozy split-level home that hosted our monthly women’s book club, and I noticed the atmosphere was somber,
The time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. — 2 Timothy 4:3-4As a pa
In John 7:37-39, it says:On the last and greatest day of the festival, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, “Let anyone who is thirsty come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.” By this he meant the Spirit, whom those who
The books we read, the stories we listen to, the worlds we spend time inhabiting—these are the things that make us. Proverbs 18:15 tells us, “The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out.” Poet Ralph Waldo Emerson is quoted as saying, “I cannot remember the bo
Twenty years ago I wrote an article called “The Church Behind Bars,” sharing what it looked like to find faith, hope, and community within the walls of a maximum-security prison. Ten years later, I followed up with another reflection, tracing the roots of transformation and the ways God was continui
I don’t remember where we first heard of the concept of a “Worry Box,” but it was an apt analogy for the worrying tendencies around our home. While I’m typically an optimist—always hopeful and looking on the bright side—my husband balances me out with his concern over things that could go wrong.Peop
In 2005 Bishop Desmond Tutu, the Anglican theologian and Nobel Laureate known for his anti-apartheid work in South Africa, wrote a beautiful book titled God Has a Dream: A Vision of Hope for Our Time. In the introduction, Tutu writes, “We all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the worl
Hope Christian Reformed Church of Stony Plain, Alta., ceased to exist at the end of 2024. It served as a Reformed congregation in Parkland County of Alberta for about 120 years. It began as a German Reformed Church and ended its life as a Christian Reformed Church. During all those years the congreg
Before my feet even touch the floor, the battle between my desires and God’s will has begun. The phone next to my bed begs me to check my texts before I give any thought to prayer. A hot shower woos me to linger longer than needed. I face the choice between scrolling Facebook or enjoying conversatio
One of my favorite memories of seminary is a meal I ate.I interned at an organization for recovering addicts, the same place where a local church ran a Wednesday Euchre group. Every year at Christmastime someone from that church invited the whole group to eat at his home. In 2013, as a new and subpa
I grew up surrounded by mountains in the Pacific Northwest—“God’s country,” as I was told when I came to Ontario for my first church position. I think I often took the landscape for granted while I was living there. For me, the sights and smells around Vancouver were always my default idea of what t