Unspooling

Unspooling

It was a quiet evening, the kind where the air carries the faint fragrance of midsummer lilies. Together, my husband and I walked along a path along the outskirts of a small park.A man walking a large dog appeared, coming toward us on the path. The moment he laid eyes on us, he and the dog quickly d

How I Came to Terms With Death as a Child

How I Came to Terms With Death as a Child

I attended my first funeral when I was 6 years old.A child at my elementary school in Iowa died in a horrible accident involving farm equipment. His name was Brian.As I peered into the casket at his funeral, I saw what looked like a swollen, waxy version of Brian’s face. I whispered to my mom, “Why

The Secret Life of Birds

Chirp, chirp. Peep, peep. Tweet, tweet. These are bird calls, right? Not exactly! Those words might sound like some bird calls, but birds are far more creative with the sounds they make than we might think.Some birds make sounds like tsk-tsk, chut-chut, and wooooo-eeee! Birds’ voices are as speciali

Growing Through Spiritual Unease

Growing Through Spiritual Unease

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.The familiar

Whispers in the Garden

Whispers in the Garden

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.I've always b

Four Decades of Living the Quad Life

Four Decades of Living the Quad Life

Through his Word, God shows that he has a plan for each person’s life. For some, their life includes extra opportunities to showcase God’s care for his people.In 1985, I was a typical 3-year-old boy living in Iowa. I played with toy trucks and tractors and didn’t like the word “nap.”On Feb. 20, my p

The Forceful Hospitality of Kèqì

The Forceful Hospitality of Kèqì

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.To celebrate

Farewell

Farewell

Dear readers, this is, sadly, my last editorial. I have resigned in protest of Synod’s decision to change The Banner’s mandate.Although in protest, I am not bitter or angry. I am disappointed, of course, but I have gone through a discerning process. Through prayer, separate conversations first with

Reclaiming Sabbath in a Burnout Culture

Reclaiming Sabbath in a Burnout Culture

“Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy” (Ex. 20:8).Of all the Ten Commandments, this might be the one that contemporary Christians most consistently ignore. We’ve found creative ways to honor God, avoid murder, and respect our parents. But Sabbath? That command seems almost quaint in our perpe

The Disappearing Neighborhood: A Call to Rebuild Community

The Disappearing Neighborhood: A Call to Rebuild Community

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.We live in a

Grief in Disguise

Grief in Disguise

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.I sat with my

Being Your Denominational Magazine

Being Your Denominational Magazine

For decades, The Banner has been the official magazine of the Christian Reformed Church. Since 2015, this magazine has worked under a mandate and publishing guidelines that called for editorial staff to show “the diverse positions held within the church” and permitted staff to “lead and encourage a

Is Western Culture More Christian Than Other Cultures?

Is Western Culture More Christian Than Other Cultures?

One of my delights each year is to unpack and display my large collection of Nativity sets. I have gathered them from around the world, and part of the fun is to see how this story is interpreted through each culture.A painted screen from Haiti pictures one of the Magi bringing an enormous bunch of

My View From the Asphalt

My View From the Asphalt

In the middle of a sunny summer morning, as I biked in the bike lane on a busy city street, I saw a car come to a complete stop in the exit from the library parking lot that I was just about to pass. Assuming the driver had seen me, I rode in front of the exit just as she drove onto the road, right

Quirky Quacks

Quack, quack, quack. My friend emerged from the bushes, binoculars in hand. “Do you hear it? The quacking?” he asked. He was determined to find the ducks that were quacking in the middle of the forest.I did hear it—tiny voices in the distance making a chaotic “kvaak kvaak,” as if a thousand mallards

Power, Authority, and Love

Power, Authority, and Love

Power differs from authority. According to the late Christian sociologist Tony Campolo, power is the coercive ability to control what happens, even against the will of others. Authority, however, is “established when someone is able to elicit compliance because others want to obey” (Choose Love Not

From Marks to Means: Word, Sacrament, and the Future of the CRC

From Marks to Means: Word, Sacrament, and the Future of the CRC

As I Was Saying is a forum for a variety of perspectives to foster faith-related conversations among our readers with the goal of mutual learning, even in disagreement. Apart from articles written by editorial staff, these perspectives do not necessarily reflect the views of The Banner.After a chall

Maddi’s Bracelet

Maddi’s Bracelet

As I write this article, I’m wearing the handmade friendship bracelet Maddi gave me. She made it herself. She even tied it on my wrist for me. It’s been with me ever since.In my sermon a few Sundays ago, I made a reference to the WWJD (What Would Jesus Do?) bracelets that some Christians wore back i